You must make yourself succeed every time

You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience
in which you really stop to look fear in the face... The
danger lies in refusing to face the fear, in not daring to
come to grips with it... You must make yourself succeed every
time. You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
- Eleanor Roosevelt

Shape our lives, shape our selves

In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves.
The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make
are ultimately our responsibility.

Eleanor Roosevelt